"What If My Kid Hates Having Their Photo Taken?" — The Secret to a Joyful Family Photo Session

If I had a dollar for every time a parent asked me this before a session, I'd probably be writing this from a beach somewhere.

 

Truth is, it’s completely normal to feel a little nervous about how your kids will behave in front of the camera. You want beautiful photos—ones where everyone is smiling, the lighting is perfect, and your little ones are on their best behavior. But let me let you in on a little secret: the best family sessions are never about perfection. They're about play.

 

The key to a truly memorable family photo session? Let your kids take the lead.

 

Yes, really.

 

Let them run, explore, laugh, and be their wonderfully wild selves. Instead of asking them to pose or smile on command (which rarely works anyway), I guide the session with gentle, playful prompts. Think blowing dandelions, playing tag, or tackling mom in a fit of giggles. When we lean into their natural energy rather than trying to contain it, magic happens.

 

Take one of my sessions as an example. This lovely family fully embraced the idea of play. They trusted me to steer their kids toward joyful moments—without forcing anything. We got laughter, snuggles, and even a surprise splash when one little one decided to leap into the water mid-shot while I was photographing mom and dad.

 

Was it part of the plan? Not even close.

 

Was it perfect? Absolutely.

 

Because that spontaneous moment? That’s the one they’ll remember forever. Not just because of the photo, but because of the joy, the silliness, the togetherness it captured.

 

When you look back at your family photos, I want you to see you. Not a staged version. The real, giggly, sometimes messy, always beautiful story of your family.

 

So the next time you're worried your child won’t cooperate, just remember: the most meaningful images come from letting go—and letting play take the lead.